Thursday, 26 March 2009

BGR Psychology part 3....?

Hey ya'll,

I am sorry to say that I am not coming up with a BGR psychology part 3 because ... I have no perfect "tactic" to hitch boys/girls. I don't have a girlfriend- never had one- tried once but it wasn't love. But what I believe in is doing absolutely nothing at all untill you're really sure of it. I seek God to who I would be in eternal partership with but I haven't recieved any response....I don't want to talk about religious stuff now anyway.

So I hope you aren't disappointed. If i did give you a "tactic" would you even trust me? The other parts are from what I hear and see so it is plausible. Boys and Girls, I wish you all a happy love life ahead of you and I hope my BGR Psychology has aided you in every possible way.

Bye

Wednesday, 18 March 2009

Well Hi!

Hiya!

I got my second look at my course's "fruits" from the school of design's exhibition of the graduates' projects. I admit that their creations are swell! Jolly good show it was! I especially liked 'Marionettes' though I haven't tried my hand at it yet. I aspire to be as or more successful than my peers. I know it is the right course for me because I won't lose interest in my best interest.

I am presently using a newly purchased laptop from my poly. It's a high-end Lenovo but I don't intend to type out all of its details.

I am failing in my discipline to do productive work. Although I do more exercises now, especially because of the recent article of unfit poly students. But it seems I have to set a diet. Cut down on intake of fried food maybe. Well... The book is having problems again though so I halted its continuation for now. I have yet to set a strong and beautiful background. Yeesh! It seems that my book has a danger into devolving into something unoriginal. It is good that I have to set up a good foundation first or else you would be expecting a very .... tarded book.

Well... this is a major book I'm thinking of as I'm setting it as a game I would create in future, and because I am hoping to make more installments. I am getting another inspiration for another book though- but it has no concern of Dark- Light.

Hint: Bloody Mary

I could be doing it after I am done with Dark-Light's first installment.

I also haven't been drawing... SHUCKS! And my course is starting soon. I don't think I'm entirely up to it yet!

By the way, I have to go to a freshman orientation camp I registered for. So I have went for the camp briefing yesterday and I met the guys and gal going for the camp. Yes apparently there is only one gal going for the camp- so far goes my intel. Altogether we are more or less 10 people. Of course I am saying these as my course only. But I hope there won't be so few gals in the course... It'll be boring don't you think?

AHAHA! Don't get me wrong. I have to worry about my education first and there is a chance that I may lag behind so Dark-Light is my best chance at scoring it.

Check out my BGR psychology series. The Third part will be done before the end of the week- I hope.

Bye!

Friday, 13 March 2009

BGR Psychology: POV

Good...evening.


I wrote this blog post as the following part of my edition of BGR psychology. You may refer to my first part if you want.


WARNING: I am stating my views and it may be offensive to some of you. It is your wish if you want to read this or not. It is by my experience that I am able to conjure this so I apologize if it was a waste of your time.


To begin with, I shall inform you that this part will consist of the positive and negative things about a BGR. As well as the reasons behind them. Through my experience and knowledge of the world's outcome.


I have to admit that my first part may have gotten way beyond BGR so I apologize and I will continue.


To me BGR is relatively short-lived. I have only spotted a few of whom managed to become something worthwhile. Boys and girls may finally find it illogical and unnecessary so they break their bond in a heart wrenching confrontation. Or there could be some other reason that I will explain later on.


The positives of this seemingly immature relationship is scarce. The positives: Manage to atain a long lasting and fruitful relationship, gained experience of BGR, and have an achievement in life.


Very few indeed- Unless my intel isn't standard. I didn't put the last two in a good way as it sounds as if the other side was a prize of sorts.

The negatives is when things don't turn out the correct way. The negatives: Depression, regret, "scar for life", and... Okay... The negtives would fall under anything about a emotional and/or physical damage.

I'll define the positives first.

Many take the chance to get involved in a BGR in an effort to stike the big win! But many won't make it through by BGR. The good reason for such an act is to start early- yes its those impatient ones I'm talking about. The bad reason is assuming that they've got nothing to lose and go straight at it without proper thinking- they would be those who won't cut it. Then there are also those who desire it as a means to fit into the crowd- Those caused by peer pressure and want to be "cool". The bad ones who become successful may dump their mate and go for another- to feel the glory of the race and/or to improve his/her status in the student body.

Now those who lose it... it's a sad story. The 'dumped' will experience a time of emotional damage like anger, depression... in other terms- EMO. I bet you'd know what it means. Physical damage is by suffering sexual harrassment. Why are the 'dumped' treated this way? It is partly their own fault by falling for "the trap", but majority of the blame goes to the culprit.

'Dumper', 'dumpee' whatever. They have schemes. Ways of entering your heart before leaving it with a bang. It was probably planned as the world has subjected to these inhumane acts. They take it that having a -excuse me- shitload of experience makes them well known as the alpha male/female. But they hardly consider what the 'dumped' feel. It's like they lure you in, fish you up, show you off, and then throw you back with this scar.

Then there are those who want their mate for their physical pleasure. A lot of youths are tempted into such unsightly acts by pornography and sick thoughts infused into their minds. Such is their way that they purely use their mate only for that. In fact, that isn't even BGR! Underage sex is carried out by those who are impatient and have a lack of self-control. I remind you that it isn't the correct thing to do, and they normally turn out as a fraud of BGR.

So most youths are implanted with mature thoughts. There is a right and wrong for those. One has to think maturely if he/she wants a fruitful BGR. Let me say that it is the person who uses those mature thoughts that defines the outcome. Don't blame the thoughts, blame the person who carried them out wrongly.

Let me get this straight, BGR isn't a plaything where people can be pushed around and exchanged. No. Think maturely and humanely. Get the logic in your head that whatever step you take into BGR, is going to affect you and someone else. Be wise and choose a good path.

I'll have to stop here as I would be writing about the proper way to start and manage BGR. I hope you have found this useful and I apologize for any misunderstandings present in it. Please leave a comment in my cbox if you have any suggestions or queries.

See you next time.

Saturday, 7 March 2009

Halo Wowed

Hey there!

I'm getting the hang of the various tactics on Halo Wars and my brother conducts them on xbox live. I guess he can't suvive alone out there so I gave him some advice while his comrades brought in scarabs FTW.

The hard justice season is finished and I am contented that Digital Ph33r did a great job with the episodes- Deus Ex Machina was turning out to be too dramatic. I guess he's great at comedy as well as some action.

The book is going quite well but I have yet to make some changes at the earlier part of it due to the rules of teleportation and the space time continum. I am currently drawing the little bits of armor that Dark and Ligt would be wearing- The fire designs are my specialty. I just realized that you may have no idea at all to how far I have achieved with my book so...

Dark-Light: 153 pages, 47,000+ words, 11 chapters

I'll be updating it on my future blog posts in case you think that I'm faking my writing.

Well... I may require some assistance for my book- an editor probably because my english isn't beautiful enough and I'm sure the readers will have a difficult time visualizing the images. Also, my vocabulary is limited and I'll keep repeating the same words again and again throughout the novel. It could be literary boring I suppose :(

But I have high hopes that its story is one of a kind. Although I had a dream of a Dark-Light title with the same story line.... It was a nightmare.

Oh well... I don't think I can say much more now. I must be off to write and draw the Dark-Light universe!

Tah Tah!

Wednesday, 4 March 2009

BGR Psychology: Concept

Hello

This is my first installment of BGR Psychology. WARNING! Due to my own experiences, I may have limited or false assumptions on the matter. I apologize if it's offensive to you in any way. If you don't find it useful and take it as a fraud... it's your choice whether you want to carry on with it or not!

Let's get started!

BGR. Boy Girl Relationship. It is a matter that drills itself into the minds of every teen, without any way of eradicating the thought completely. I'm not implying that is some sort of parasite- don't get me wrong.

There are many factors causing this outbreak. The main reason is maturity. As you mature, you tend to view the opposite sex in another manner- usually sexually. Then your thoughts deviate onto a more mature subject and you WANT to have sex. Sounds sick? Deal with it.

Another reason that I've conjured is trend. Although it sounds ridiculous, it sounds fairly true to me. Many teens aspire for a BGR because its "cool". Single teens will feel jealous that couples get to have something they don't, and they will strive to earn that. So the main thing is gaining superiority over others using BGR. Sounds like a sort of animal thing? Well I'll talk about that subject later on.

One other reason is exposure to sources sporting BGR. Everyone wants to be the hero right? Everyone wants to have their fair maiden or charming prince. So they think: " Wow! Getting a boy/girl is really easy! It's so cool to get a boyfriend/girlfriend! I bet everyone else would be jealous."

Last but not least. LOVE! I don't understand it yet and I guess most of you don't. We ask ourselves what it is and it comes in many different forms. I admit that I can't explain it without false theories.

Those are the reasons that I have deduced from my experiences.

But we haven't even got into the definition yet! How silly! *ahem* GAY!

Well... A boy girl relationship is based on teenagers and young adults when they can still afford being addressed as 'boy' or 'girl'. It is a stage when a "boy" and a "girl" grow a loving bond and being closer to one another. Though it sounds like heaven, it is a fragile relationship if not maintained properly. Most relationships never make it to adulthood, but if they do... Its one exceptional bond that many don't share.

I know- You would be saying: "I'll take my chances!" Fine! Its up to you but I'll give you a warning... in my later instalments.

So a steady relationship needs loads of caring- which brings a question for you to ponder about. Are you ready? Are you willing to take the responsibility? Are you sure about it? Why am I asking this? Its because I don't want you to fall prey to dead love.

How do people create BGR? Well... from my experience Valentine's Day is when most of them are created, because of the appropriate occasion and the discounts on gifts :) It can happen anytime to be exact. Its usually created among well known friends of different sexes. But there are others that I will talk about...

Firstly, the boy/girl starts making friends with the girl/boy.
Then, flirting comes into process.
Next thing you know it they are in a BGR once they consent to each other's wish.

That isn't advice so don't take it unless you wanna.

Most teens go for that method and I would say that it is appropriate. But must there really be a method for love? Love isn't concocted by you yourself! True love happens but not as soon as you would expect. With so many plans, its terrible if the BGR isn't real at all! And you may get cocky and flirt with so many others. I tell you, keep your hands on your own girl/boy!

Basically, BGR is just another step into your mate's comfort zone. That relationship doesn't justify your means to move on to something worse.

I've seen teenage couples kiss before. It isn't the right thing to do while you are still in BGR, because its underage and you two aren't allowed to do it before marriage. Most importantly, it may spark the start of you-know-what!

You'd probably be asking: "Then what do you suppose BGR is for?"

I've mentioned that its a step taken from a normal friendly relationship into a stage where both of you are content and will take the relationship all the way into adulthood to carry on to much bigger things. That's the proper one, the improper one doesn't specify that it will last into adulthood. The improper one is merely temporary and could cause a scar for life- or worse.

Its a risk that one should be willing to take.

I'm finished with my first part here and I hope you've learned much about BGR. My later installments would explain the positive and negative outcomes of BGR as well as well as how to properlly manage one.

Bye!

P.S.- If you have doubts, post your questions on my tagboard with proper english which I can understand. And... I know you doubt my experience in this matter. I can read you mind AHAHAHA! Like I said, you choose whether you wanna heed this or not.

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