BGR Psychology: POV

Good...evening.


I wrote this blog post as the following part of my edition of BGR psychology. You may refer to my first part if you want.


WARNING: I am stating my views and it may be offensive to some of you. It is your wish if you want to read this or not. It is by my experience that I am able to conjure this so I apologize if it was a waste of your time.


To begin with, I shall inform you that this part will consist of the positive and negative things about a BGR. As well as the reasons behind them. Through my experience and knowledge of the world's outcome.


I have to admit that my first part may have gotten way beyond BGR so I apologize and I will continue.


To me BGR is relatively short-lived. I have only spotted a few of whom managed to become something worthwhile. Boys and girls may finally find it illogical and unnecessary so they break their bond in a heart wrenching confrontation. Or there could be some other reason that I will explain later on.


The positives of this seemingly immature relationship is scarce. The positives: Manage to atain a long lasting and fruitful relationship, gained experience of BGR, and have an achievement in life.


Very few indeed- Unless my intel isn't standard. I didn't put the last two in a good way as it sounds as if the other side was a prize of sorts.

The negatives is when things don't turn out the correct way. The negatives: Depression, regret, "scar for life", and... Okay... The negtives would fall under anything about a emotional and/or physical damage.

I'll define the positives first.

Many take the chance to get involved in a BGR in an effort to stike the big win! But many won't make it through by BGR. The good reason for such an act is to start early- yes its those impatient ones I'm talking about. The bad reason is assuming that they've got nothing to lose and go straight at it without proper thinking- they would be those who won't cut it. Then there are also those who desire it as a means to fit into the crowd- Those caused by peer pressure and want to be "cool". The bad ones who become successful may dump their mate and go for another- to feel the glory of the race and/or to improve his/her status in the student body.

Now those who lose it... it's a sad story. The 'dumped' will experience a time of emotional damage like anger, depression... in other terms- EMO. I bet you'd know what it means. Physical damage is by suffering sexual harrassment. Why are the 'dumped' treated this way? It is partly their own fault by falling for "the trap", but majority of the blame goes to the culprit.

'Dumper', 'dumpee' whatever. They have schemes. Ways of entering your heart before leaving it with a bang. It was probably planned as the world has subjected to these inhumane acts. They take it that having a -excuse me- shitload of experience makes them well known as the alpha male/female. But they hardly consider what the 'dumped' feel. It's like they lure you in, fish you up, show you off, and then throw you back with this scar.

Then there are those who want their mate for their physical pleasure. A lot of youths are tempted into such unsightly acts by pornography and sick thoughts infused into their minds. Such is their way that they purely use their mate only for that. In fact, that isn't even BGR! Underage sex is carried out by those who are impatient and have a lack of self-control. I remind you that it isn't the correct thing to do, and they normally turn out as a fraud of BGR.

So most youths are implanted with mature thoughts. There is a right and wrong for those. One has to think maturely if he/she wants a fruitful BGR. Let me say that it is the person who uses those mature thoughts that defines the outcome. Don't blame the thoughts, blame the person who carried them out wrongly.

Let me get this straight, BGR isn't a plaything where people can be pushed around and exchanged. No. Think maturely and humanely. Get the logic in your head that whatever step you take into BGR, is going to affect you and someone else. Be wise and choose a good path.

I'll have to stop here as I would be writing about the proper way to start and manage BGR. I hope you have found this useful and I apologize for any misunderstandings present in it. Please leave a comment in my cbox if you have any suggestions or queries.

See you next time.